Thousand Year Obstacle

Muslim Murasu, March 2013

Marriage was considered a deep and enduring bond in previous times. Now this notion is losing currency. Marriages arranged with importance given to money and looks do not survive for long. Sheep are increasingly crossing the fence. It is not wrong for the bride and groom to come face to face once, in a dignified manner, and then marriage being fixed. Obscenity from TV and films are poisoning young hearts. Man should go out and earn. Woman should stay in the house, tend the children and maintain the family. Marriages can be held in an austere manner in mosques during five time prayers and in front of the people assembling there. Fifteen lakh rupees that would have gone wasted can be converted into house, shop, vehicle or asset for the bride. This is accident prone world. If bread-winner passes away in young age, wife needs to have economic backing for the rest of her life. Perspiration, urine, mucus, saliva, feces are natural. Semen, eggs and periods are natural. Venting mechanism is essential. This is the fundamental for survival of life. It cannot be avoided.
Marriage age for girls is eighteen. A girl in today’s obscene world passes through all lessons by the age of thirteen. TV serials are helping. Government shall be impressed upon to bring down the marriage age. Vote bank strength can be mighty. There is no necessity that man should be of higher age and woman should be of lower age. Hearts should match. It won’t ruin if woman is of higher age. Modern treatments, pills and injections are helping in reproductive needs. Same age marriage shall also be encouraged. Polygamy is a natural gift. Mutual trust and unconditional love can deepen the bond. People with economic and physical strength should do polygamy. Offspring should be cared for without any partiality and with equal respect. Property and division should be honest and clear. No secrets should be kept. Marriage in halls with extravagant meals arrangement should be immediately stopped. Marriages in mosques should be the priority. Obsession for gold will aggravate poverty. Focus should be on land, construction, house and self employment. Marriage situation, divorce, polygamy, austerity, late marriage, monthly income, immovable assets are intertwined in life.