April 25, 2012

Twenty Years Marriage Life

Muslim Murasu, April 2012

Humans nowadays live easily upto ninety. Self control, dietary control and lifestyle and habits are the deciding factors. On an average, 25 years are spent in acquiring education and then five years are consumed for employment, marriage and buying house. People wedding afterwards can at the maximum enjoy married life for twenty years. Man becomes host to disease after fifty. Air is thick with carbon dioxide. Hearts will fail to work smoothly. Remaining years will be spent with the help of doctors, medicines and equipments. Troubles are harder for ladies. All are trapped and hassled in family control techniques. Birth control implants, pills, abortion, delaying or denying child, all these are against nature. Excessive loss of blood and uterus displacement have become common. Reproach for marriage pleasures after age of forty, incapacity, physical weakness, obstacles and new diseases have impaired the growth of human society.
Muslims completely ignored Islamic fundamentals. Candidates belonging to either gender should be married once they reach adolescence. Western model of life will not help. Polygamy is the cure. Those having physical and economic strength should go for second and third marriages. There is nothing to feel shy. Otherwise sexual improprieties and illicit relationships will surge. Skin diseases and STDs will bring disgrace. Men should earn and women should run family with contentment. Both going out and earning will affect peace in family. Contentment is the best medicine. It will bring blessings and happiness. Family control and nuclear families are disgraceful western ideas. This will affect faith in God. One will lose God’s protection. Dowry is forbidden. Jewel obsession is pernicious. It will severely impair occupation and income. Remaining seventy years of life need not be ignored for the sake of marriages that hardly last twenty years.

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